Is it bad that Im 20 years old and my girlfriend is 17? I turned 20 in August and she turned 17 yesterday. The way I see it, if I would have sex with her last week it would have looked alot worse, her being 16 at the time and me being a fresh 20 year old. I am 20 and I would never date a 17 year old. But, since you are a guy and the older one, that might make a difference. I was a totally different person when I was
Small price to pay for someone that you truly love.
I'm 25 and I'm starting to date a 17 year old, I wonder if it really is wrong.?
You can learn so much more about the other person without having to put sex into the picture. What if something happens and she gets pregnant? Are you willing to do the right thing? Are you willing to take responsibility?
Also, in Colorado a 17 year old can only be married with the consent of both parents and a judge. Otherwise the 17 year old first has to be emancipated, which requires a decision by a judge. I assume mom is saying "slow down" and she probably knows from whence she speaks. It can't be that long until you are I live in California and I'm curious to know if it is legal for a 17 year old to date a 20 year old. * This will flag comments for moderators to take action. Technically yes, but sexual activity is subject to endangering a minor and/or statutory rape, depending on the extent. * This will flag comments for moderators to take action.
Maybe you will spend a lot of your time in jail. Think with your mind dude. The age of consent in almost every state is 17 or below. Just saying. Certainly you are in a grey area of society because she is not an adult yet.
I'm 21 and kind of dating a 15 year old… i love her
I'd have more respect for you if you had decided to wait until she was an adult but I can't dump on you either. If her parents approve of you, so should put effort into making the relationship better each day. You should be encouraging her to get the most of her education as she is still in high school.
Age ain't nothing but a number.
Im 20 and dating a 17 year old
I wouldn't worry about it, if the two of you don't have a problem with it then there is no issue. You wouldn't be asking the same question if she was 27 and you 30 would you?
It seems completely normal to me.
Personally, I dont find it wrong at all. I think it sounds perfectly fine to me.
But just make sure you know how her parents feel about it, because if they do not like it they could possibly have you arrested, depending on the state you live in of course. So just check things out and make sure your safe. Hey, its only 3 years difference.
Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. The real problem is that you are in two different places.
While that might not matter if you were 45 and she was 25, at 17, she hasn't had a chance to sow any wild oats and needs to be able to do that if she desires without the constraints imposed by a relationship. You have had that chance.
I'm currently dating a 17 year old girl and I'm We started dating back in 09 when I was 17 and she was I've been living with her and her mom since Can . I'm 25 and I'm starting to date a 17 year old, I wonder if it really is wrong.? if she would change her mind once she hits her 20's. i really care about her. with dating her but trying to. Being Friends with year olds and crossing the line? Guys,what's your maximum age difference for your partner? 20 year old guy dating a 16 year old. Do men think that it's ok to go out with much younger women? Is 24 too old? I get so jealous when other guys talk to my crush.
My fear is you're getting more ready to settle down while she's just entering the starting gate. Nothing wrong with dating her but trying to turn her into a long term girlfriend could just help her miss a time in her life when she least needed to be tied down. I think everyone needs this "Get it out of your system" time to uh She wont change her mind if your deep enough in the relationship to be thinking of marriage then its pretty much a given she loves you just as much if not more.
It takes alot and a much longer time for women to get over love lr for feelings to change plus shes young.
If you want her go for her or wait till shes 18 and live the life you guys want. Anonymous : i suppose, i guess if you dont try you will never know :.
Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Move on. Women may seem to generally operate the same way but some are some are incapable of handling a man like you. Not a bad thing.
I'm 16 and I wouldn't date a 20 year old. I'd seriously wonder why a 20 year old would want to date a 16 year old if I were you. In my own personal experience, teenagers/YAs date people significantly (4 years is significant at our age) younger than them because they 1. Hi. You should do nothing. When I was 15 to 17 there were a number of older women that I was attracted to. One girl about 18 or 19, accepted my invitation to go out one night. She worked and I was a schoolboy. I really didn't know how or what to b. Nov 03, 20 dating 17 year old? Is it bad that Im 20 years old and my girlfriend is 17? I turned 20 in August and she turned 17 yesterday. The way I see it, if I would have sex with her last week it would have looked alot worse, her being 16 .
Just Not compatible. One who loves you reguardless of how cruel or wrong you may seem, not take it too personal or not assume its out of haste even when you try to fix it, because you do have issues i assume and its obviously hard.
She needs to know when to let it go, laugh it off, or just accept it and help you through. Your ex isnt going to help you through. At this point it doesnt look like shes got much respect or empathy for how you struggle.
Let her go, find a girl who can live you above all else. Loyalty is rare but if you find it itll all work out. Anonymous : i think you got the question wrong.
Cris carter said it best common man!!!
Go for it man. Not any different if you were 26 and she was Age has no barring on relationships and does nothing to deminish or define love. I dated at 18 to a man 42 yrs my senior. Was my best friend all the way through, loved him.
Yah I would say it's definitely wrong.
Not only from a legal stand point where is so close to the line of under age. Is the statute 18? Not only because of the taboo of a growing man trying to date a teenage girl. I was a different person when I was 17 and I'm I mean it like a totally different person and I wouldn't have ever been able to know that when I was 17 you see what I mean?
What she wants now will not be the same in a year or in 3 or in 5. Not in life or in relationships either.