I found out my younger sister who just turned 17 was dating a 25 year old man. My parents arent happy with her relationship but they wont do anything or press any charges. So I found out this guys name and looked him up on facebook. She is furious and has already accused me, but I denied sending the email. I felt the need to do something to stop this relationship and our parents werent doing anything.
I mean it like a totally different person and I wouldn't have ever been able to know that when I was 17 you see what I mean?
Aug 08, Hi, i'm 17 years old almost He is 26 years old The deal is that I'm attracted to him, and I believe that he feels the same way. We've been friends for a while, we hangout and party together (He's a DJ and I go to raves) We've known each other since March. Oct 10, I found out my younger sister who just turned 17 was dating a 25 year old man. I looked the the statue for our state & it says that A person 24 years of age or older who engages in sexual activity with a person 16 or 17 years of age commits a felony of the second degree. My parents arent happy with her relationship but they wont do anything or press any charges. Mar 13, IMPORTANT READ THIS > > First of all, don't take anything myself or anyone else says too seriously. The bottom line is that this is your life and not theirs. What you can do is take what we say into consideration and see if it makes sense for your.
What she wants now will not be the same in a year or in 3 or in 5. Not in life or in relationships either. Now I have to ask what is it that draws her to you?
Typically men go after much younger women because they are mentally very immature and women their own age don't have much in common with them.
I think that is where you need to focus your attention.
Look at the people in your age group and see why it is you are so different from them? I don't mean to be insulting but I do find there to be a major power imbalance when a grown man wants to date a younger girl. Maybe you should also look into where that is stemming from.
It could be dangerous or it could just be a preference which isn't condoned by socially. I personally think it's wrong. If she was 20 and you were 29 that would still be tough but it wouldn't be wrong.
At that age she would be more able to at least decide that she wants to pursue an older man. At the age of 17 our brains aren't even matured enough yet to make that decision. Think of what she'll miss out on in her life by not doing things with people her own age? She'll have to grow up quick or she'll miss the building blocks of social groups her own age and won't be able to relate. I'm glad you asked us it shows some insight but I think you should move on. After all you are THE adult in this picture, the only one.
Im 17 and dating a 25 year old
Ask a New Question expand. Stella What is the difference between just sex and dating? Caveman So I dated this girl last summer. We broke up after a month and a half. Anonymous What should I do? I think i offended my crush.
Anonymous Who's in the wrong? I think maybe you haven't and you are jealous of your little sis beating you to start dating so you wanted to stop it.
Just saying. She is actually quite mature now and needs to learn from her own mistakes in this area.
As long as he isn't abusing her then any hurt caused to her will only be short term and she will learn from it. If however her family starts banning her from these things she will want to rebel and maybe turn to prostitution and drugs.
Is that what you want? It seems that a 26 year old sexing a 18 year old in your state would be legal? If so, in a year's time would you be totally cool with your sister's relationship with this man? I think not. You are concerned that she is losing her innocence. I have news for you, she will lose it sooner or later.
The only way you stop it is to lock her up for the rest of her life.
My parents arent happy I think you did I wish he would of let her down gently though. Your little sis could of gotten really hurt you know he's older and sex would be a big issue and she's young she probably wouldn't realize she's being used.
I think couples are best no more than 5 years apart but not when your Hopefully she'll find some nice year old boy. You are a minor, and there is a good reason for that.
You are not sensible enough to hold off online predators. Please think about that. It is not an insult. It is a fact. Stop meeting people online, at least until you are older. Tara Send a private message. Very well said Colette.
It is totally scary to have underage girls talking to adult males online. It makes me sick.
I'm 25 and I'm starting to date a 17 year old, I wonder if it really is wrong.?
HikerVeg Send a private message. A man you never met in real life is talking to you about when you have sexual intercourse and when you are pregnant. This makes me naseous. What the heck are you doing! Cut him off!! Any 25 year old who lies about his age to someone he thought was 18 is getting off to a bad start but any 25 year old who continues to lie after discovering shes really just 17 is getting off to a bad ending. Now you know why he targets young naive girls.
Im 17 year old girl dating a 25 year old, is it wrong? Any 25 year old who lies about his age to someone he thought was 18 is getting off to a bad start but any 25 year old who continues to. 17 year old girl and 24 year old boy Being Friends with year olds and crossing the line? Is 24 too old? Right-wing hypocrites attack gay love story age you would date someone Is it wrong for a 17 year old to be in a relationship with a 26 year old. Nov 08, Yes. I am 24 (25 next month) and can't imagine dating someone You grow up so much from the ages that no matter how grown up or mature you could be for your age, you just aren't in the same place. I still look at 18 year olds like kids.
Run, Forrest, run!!! So this is online someone you never met in real life you could be talking to a 45 year old man. Ask your parents what they think I asked him to meet me at a mall outside a restaurant just to check if he didn't older than Anonymous : And you have never met him but you already let him control you This is not good at all MrsVanDeKamp Send a private message.
It seems like he wants to control you. Kingslayer Send a private message. Use your brain. Does any of this sound good to you? Cut this guy off forever.
I'm 25 and I'm starting to date a 17 year old, I wonder if it really is wrong.? While that might not matter if you were 45 and she was 25, at 17, she hasn't had a chance to sow any wild oats. Sep 18, Of course, the year-old will be 18 in 2 months anyway so much of this won't be relevant for long. But if you happen to be contemplating such a relationship, I would suggest that you reconsider. That year-old is still high-school age. That year-old has been through college or is in the midst of a career (hopefully). Im 17 years old in texas and am dating a 25 year old is it illegal if my parents dont approve or is 17 truly the age of consent? Ill be 17 in a few days ive been with my25 year old bf for alittle.